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Like streams to the ocean : notes on ego, love, and the things that make us who we are

Jenkins, Jedidiah. (Author).

A moving meditation on the hidden, sometimes difficult topics we must consider to live an authentic life, from author of To Shake the Sleeping Self. We aren't born into a self. It is created without our consent, built on top of our circumstances, the off-handed comments we hear from others, and the moments that scared us most when we were young. But in the busyness of our daily life, we rarely get the chance to think clearly about the questions that matter most. Who am I? Where do I belong? How much of who I am and what I do boils down to avoiding the things that make me feel small? We tuck these questions into the corner of our minds, but they drive our behavior far more than we give them credit for, even after we become adults. Writing with the passion and clarity that made his debut, To Shake the Sleeping Self, a national bestseller, Jenkins makes space to explore the seven topics we must think about in order to live a deeply considered life: ego, family, work, love, nature, death, and the soul. He considers the experiences that shape us into who we are, whether they're as heart-pounding as a rafting trip through the whitewater of the Grand Canyon, or as ordinary as the moment when we look in the mirror each morning. Through it all, Jenkins leads readers on a wide-ranging conversation about finding fulfillment in the people and places around us, and discovering the courage to show our deepest selves to the world. Like Streams to the Ocean is a profound reflection from one of our most original writers, a necessary read for anyone seeking a companion on the road to understanding.

Book  - 2021
  • ISBN: 9780593137239
  • Physical Description 249 pages ; 22 cm
  • Edition First edition.
  • Publisher [Place of publication not identified] : [publisher not identified], 2021.

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Ego -- Family -- Home -- Friendship -- Love -- Work -- Death -- The soul.

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Like Streams to the Ocean : Notes on Ego, Love, and the Things That Make Us Who We Are: Essaysc
Like Streams to the Ocean : Notes on Ego, Love, and the Things That Make Us Who We Are: Essaysc
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Ruminations on our need for purpose and a celebration of adventure. Much as he did in his debut bestseller, To Shake the Sleeping Self, Jenkins sprinkles his joyful, meandering text with musings on the natural world: a lone violet in a meadow; rafting through the Grand Canyon; intense feelings of gratitude for Earth's grandeur and the interconnectedness found throughout nature. His most authoritative chapter is on the ego, where we live "the majority of our lives" and which he keenly defines as "the container in which you build an identity and then defend it." The author goes on to describe his quirky personality and explains how his ego protected him from pain: "As a kid, I highlighted my weirdness and uniqueness to remove myself from competition." He writes affectionately about his good friends, encouraging readers to appreciate and cultivate those relationships, and his open worldview shines in the countless aphoristic passages and introspective reflections scattered throughout the text: "If you could see the strings pulling at people, you'd be as patient as a pillow with everyone you meet"; "Tears are the swelling of something inside me, until that something gets too big for my body to hold. It makes room by pushing the tears out." It's clear that Jenkins wants readers to join him on his journey of self-discovery, which requires consistent questioning: "Who do you feel the most yourself with?"; "Who do you hang with that makes you feel the fullness of one of yourselves?" The bromides may lay too thick on the ground for some readers, but the author seems genuine in his desire to inspire people to consider the true motives behind the desires--and to direct their actions based on those considerations. Ultimately, he advises that we "try things with gusto" and understand "we are ignorant actors in a cosmic drama." An awakening for fellow travelers on the spiritual path. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

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Travel writer Jenkins (To Shake the Sleeping Self, 2018) posits that in order to understand ourselves and our thinking, we must fearlessly examine eight components of life: ego, family, home, friendship, love, work, death, and the soul. While this may sound like a fairly straightforward proposition, Jenkins' writing style is anything but. His essays--some new for this book, others based on his popular Instagram posts and travel writings--meander across pages, incorporating personal reflection, advice, anecdotes, profiles of his friends, stories about his family, and quotes from notables ranging from Zelda Fitzgerald to Marcus Aurelius, all delivered in his confidential, self-deprecating style. He is relentlessly honest, doesn't seem to consider any topic taboo, and is the first to call himself out when he thinks he's drifting into sentimentality or New Age psychobabble. His musings are most effective when read in small doses, because he gives readers a lot to think about. Jenkins' approach along the lines of "This works for me--you might want to try it" could inspire his followers to do just that.

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Wilderness magazine executive editor Jenkins, known for his New York Times best seller To Shake the Sleeping Self: A Journey from Oregon to Patagonia, and a Quest for a Life with No Regret, here writes a collection of essays, some previously published and others shared here for the first time, on what makes us who we are. These grounded meditations on life are rooted in the author's own experiences; fearing rejection for being a gay Christian and identifying, and responding to, insecurities. These are among the subjects that Jenkins eloquently explores in chapters on ego, family, home, friendship, love, work, death, and the soul. His reflections on family are especially moving, as he illustrates the lessons involved with coming to terms with the past and reconnecting with siblings. Each chapter stands on its own, but together they bring insight into how we cope with life's transitions. Similar to his previous book, Jenkins uses writing as a creative outlet, whether rediscovering his native Tennessee, exploring Vermont, or, ultimately, calling Los Angeles home. These are the strongest parts of the book, with the author considering the concept of home, and what belief and belonging means to him. VERDICT Jenkins is a sincere writer, and his ability to make it feel as if he is talking to you directly will both attract longtime fans and engage new readers.--Stephanie Sendaula, Library Journal