Oneill (Unmentionable: The Victorian Lady's Guide to Sex, Marriage and Manners) keeps her tongue firmly in cheek for this dark-humored, enlightening look at Victorian-era prescriptions for upper-class childbirth and child rearing. Using a Socratic dialogue between the brisk yet cheerful narrator and an intelligent modern woman, Oneill lays out common expert opinions from the 19th century, a time with a startling 20%-or-higher child mortality rate. Dubious-and often conflicting-advice culled from numerous medical books and articles includes preventing children from drinking when thirsty to stave off adult-onset alcoholism and requiring new mothers to remain quietly, boringly bedbound for several weeks. The narrator's obvious enjoyment in sharing vintage expert opinions increases as particularly horrifying facts regarding baby farms, beatings, and heroin for expectant mothers pile up, rendering the imaginary listener nearly speechless. Oneill probes each topic with a Lemony Snicket-like tone and candor, revealing how some of these beliefs eventually evolved into improved girls' education and a kinder approach to discipline. One part sauciness, one part frankness, and one part sweet relief that readers live in the present, Oneill's book provides readers with a liberal dose of medical and women's history that's well worth taking. (Apr.) © Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.

In Ungovernable, Oneill (Unmentionable, 2016) bets that an encounter with Victorian parenting will reassure today's stressed-out parents who are worried about their own abilities. This wild ride through 19th-century child-rearing is an exploration of anal worms, strange tinctures, inappropriate education, child labor, and questionable food stuffs, told in the form of a Q&A with the author. Readers will learn the altogether shocking practices of Victorian parenthood and be reminded that people did live to tell the tale. Of course, this is Oneill's point: it seems indulgent for modern parents to flagellate themselves over their shortcomings when flagellation itself produced our predecessors. After all, we're no longer feeding beer to babies, so we can't be doing so badly. The author's breezy style strikes an amusing and marked contrast with the subject matter, which hopefully keeps readers focused on their successes as modern, enlightened parents which the Victorians also considered themselves, a fact that is slyly related in delicious irony. While Oneill will likely not supplant Spock and Brazelton, she may well set parents at ease in her own hilarious way.--Erin Downey Howerton Copyright 2019 Booklist