Goldberg's book is populated by exiles and refugees whose "feet don't quite touch the ground." At the heart of this engrossing memoir is her mother, Hilde Jacobsthal, whose life was shaped by "volcanic pressures of war and emigration." Hilde returned to her apartment in Amsterdam one morning in July 1943 to find that the Gestapo had, after eight tries, snatched her German-born Jewish parents, who subsequently perished in Auschwitz. Hilde went underground, moved to Belgium along paths blazed by the resistance to bring downed Allied pilots to safety. Passed along as both a Roman Catholic and a member of the Dutch Reformed Church, and from house to mansion, Hilde was finally liberated by the Americans. Because she had medical training, she volunteered for work in Bergen-Belsen, where she arrived at the end of April 1945. There she found out that her best friend, Margot, along with Margot's "annoying kid sister," Anne Frank, had perished a few weeks earlier. Hilde ran a day care center; worked with displaced persons; fell in love and married Max Goldberg, a Swiss doctor; and moved to Basel, where the couple were recruited at the end of 1947 as medical aides for the embattled state of Israel. The extraordinary tale is heroic. It strikes the reader as thoroughly romantic, even cinematic. But in "perpetual crisis," Hilde built walls that made her unreachable. Her daughter Rita speaks for her mother as well as for herself: "We feel the shadow of violent death always on us. We were born in its chill." Even so, hineni - "here I am." PETER FRITZSCHE, a professor of history and Germanic languages at the University of Illinois, is the author of "Life and Death in the Third Reich."

The Holocaust cannot and should not be understood, but it must be remembered. So says author Goldberg in this this searing family narrative. Born in Basel, Switzerland, in 1949, Goldberg, goddaughter of Otto Frank, father of Anne, tells the story of her Jewish mother, Hilde, a close friend of the Frank family, who, as a teen in Nazi-occupied Holland, fled to Belgium and survived the Holocaust after her parents' arrest. Following the liberation, Hilde worked in the Bergen-Belsen concentration camp with a tiny group of Jewish survivors, sorting the living from the dead and supervising the first stages of their cure in a community where genocide had wiped out 106,000 of Holland's 140,000 Jewish residents. Despite emphasizing the role of the kindness of strangers in saving Jews, she is just as candid about how readily most Dutch government officials went along with the Nazis and how the vast majority of the population lay low and looked the other way. Of course, the family story, and especially the Frank connection, will draw readers (she knew Otto very well, right up to his postwar visits to the U.S.), who will be open to discussion of the big issues of perpetrators, victims, and, especially, bystanders, then and now.--Rochman, Hazel Copyright 2015 Booklist

A daughter revisits her mother's harrowing past.Goldberg (Comparative Literature/Harvard Univ.; Sex and Enlightenment: Women in Richardson and Diderot, 1984) grew up knowing that her parents had survived the Holocaust through a combination of luck, agonizing struggles and selfless acts of heroism. Her emotionally shattering memoir focuses on her mother's experiences, as the author seeks to understand a parent she felt had distanced herself from her children and to explore the legacy of the Holocaust on her own identity. "I have never known what to do with this history," writes Goldberg. "It makes a better tale than anything that has happened in my own life, and it has to some extent paralyzed me." She and her sisters felt they "had to live up to the myth we inherited[of] our grandparents' martyrdom, on the one hand, and our parents' exceptional courage, on the other." They felt inadequate and inconsequential in comparison. Surely, Hilde Jacobsthal emerges as heroic in Goldberg's sensitive recounting, documented by material from the Netherlands Institute for War, Holocaust, and Genocide Studies; histories and memoirs; and probing interviews with her mother, father and uncle. Living with her parents and brother in Amsterdam, Hilde was best friends with Anne Frank's older sister, Margot; after the war, Otto Frank became Rita Goldberg's godfather. Hilde happened to be away from Amsterdam when the Nazis made a sweeping arrest of Jews, including her parents. The 15-year-old returned home to find the Nazi seal on her door and her parents gone. She fled to Belgium and spent the war years in hiding, fearful always of betrayal. After the war, she served tirelessly and devotedly as a nurse, child care center director, and liaison with the British Red Cross in Bergen-Belsen, the American Joint Distribution Committee, and the U.N. Relief and Rehabilitation Administration. Goldberg writes eloquently of the "volcanic pressures" that shaped her family's story and continue to haunt her own. Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.